I am maybe maybe maybe not ugly (in line with the good individuals when you look at the current picture thread with good hygiene

Gown feeling, and grooming that is basic. I am a little peaceful in that I do not invest on a regular basis giggling and speaking similar to girls my age (22), but i could truly hold my very own in a sensible discussion. We have no self-esteem problems or daddy problems or “issues” of any sort, actually (except with individuals whom utilize the non-word “anyways, ” but that is why i am a doper, right? ).

Maybe maybe Not ugly? NOT UNATTRACTIVE?!: eek: (Glee pours ice chilled water over their mind) Why if we were not therefore old, I would in fact speak to you (and that means a great deal originating from a bashful nerd) also your anthropomorphic guardian would not bother me personally.: confused:

Moving forward, as other posters have stated, us nerdy types current several problems:

– we now have no concept if you are flirting in us anyway) – we have no experience of keeping up our end (so to speak) – we have specialised interests with us(and tend not to believe such a gorgeous woman could be interested

When you such as the look of one of us:

– ensure it is blindingly obvious* that you will be interested – carefully explain what you like and anticipate from the relationship – take a pastime within our interest (as we say)

*I posted this before, but it bears saying. Whenever I was a lad, an pleasant, smart female went beside me once or twice. It had been good fun that is clean. 1 week, she advised we venture out on Saturday. We apologised, saying I experienced to complete a chess exhibition that is simultaneous charity. No issue, she stated she’d come watching. Therefore she viewed for 4 hours while we played chess. But i did not realise this meant anything! So we drifted aside, and she married some other person. I am glee and I also’m a nerd.: smack:

Yeah, surely. After the opening salvo, you probably don’t want to keep firing if you just aren’t getting anything in return. The ice is meant to be broken; the entire lake that is damn perhaps not said to be frozen. Er, some ice is thicker than others. Often it takes one or more or two swings aided by the 8 pounder to obtain a crack that is substantial. Not everybody is outbound, socially adept, and comfortable in light conversation, ‘specially the mooks whom’ve spent a lot more of their life books that are reading in a lab than in the singles club or perhaps the recreations industries.

Having said that, then by all means move on if the mope continues not to respond past your patience level, and especially if he responds but only takes it as an opportunity to boast about himself and/or talk about his stuff without advancing any interest in your interests. There is no need certainly to foster that style of narcissism. However, if you have an initial interest, a little more patience/persistance/light physical violence might be so as.

Oh, and I second the suggestion that is touching. Perhaps not a backrub (at the very least, perhaps not initially. That kinda sends the incorrect sign. ) But pressing the forearm or neck? Yes, absolutely.

An added thing of note (according to your TM photos): you sorts of have actually the Jodie Foster thing going there, even though that isn’t a thing that is badafter all, this really is perhaps not a negative thing) you will do look only a little. Disapproving when you are perhaps not smiling. That it is extremely sweet (at the very least to those of us with librarian fetishes: D ), fdating but might be intimidating to a man attempting to opt to approach you. Whenever you smile, though (thump-skip-thump) it really is charming, ‘specially that types of timid, demure appearance you’ve got when you look at the photo while watching ocean. And attention contact is perhaps all well and good, however a small shyness–glancing away a bit, or permitting your bangs type of autumn across your eyes as soon as in a while–might convey in the same way stressed due to the fact man is (even though you’re not).

I do believe that is all I got. Org understands i understand that which works on me personally, but I have significantly less than a clue on how it really works one other method.